I wasn’t very interested in joining a Moms Group until after Miss Mac was born, and I realized that any group was better than being suck inside with 2 toddlers and nothing to do. So, I gave this particular one in my area a try. What drew me to this one the most was that the group is a registered non-profit and provides a lot of assistance to local organizations in need through financial contributions as well as volunteerism from it’s members.

After seeing how rewarding participating in community service activities feels, a few of us Moms had the idea to start a program for the kids within our group to teach them the importance of giving back to the community around us. It was then that the “Random Acts of Kindness Club” was born.

Each month, we take turns choosing an organization and planning activities that are brought down to our children’s levels so that they can understand what giving back means. Our group sets aside $50 a month for these events, and lots of times we also ask our members to make personal contributions depending on the charity we are supporting that month.

Our children have planted flowers at our local hospital, stuffed Easter baskets for the United Way, made cards and crafts at a local VFW to be sent overseas, brought our local police officers loads of home baked goodies in exchange for a tour of the police department, and collected school supplies that were donated to a local Elementary school. Next month, we are holding a new and gently used Pajama Drive for a lower income section of a nearby town.

Tonight, I explained to Buckaroo about this upcoming event, and asked him to choose one set of pajamas that no longer fit him to donate. He had a lot of questions about why, in fact, some children don’t have the things that he has. While I wasn’t quite sure how much of our conversation he was actually taking in, he seemed genuinely concerned about these kids.

When I came back to the room a few minutes later, he was trying hard to zip this large book bag that was busting at it’s seams. I asked him where he was planning on going, and he replied, “No where, Mom. Those kids would probably like some stuffed animals to keep them warm, too.”

He gets it. And I am so proud that he does.

The holiday season is a wonderful time to involve your kids in community service, and even though money is tight for so many of us, these acts do not need to be financial to make a difference.

Do you do community service activities as a family? If so, I’d love to hear from you.

This post was inspired by the ROAK Challenge.

7 Responses to “Teaching our Kids Kindness”
  1. mellisarock says:

    AWWWW!!!! What a wonderful thing the Moms in your group are teaching your little ones. It brought tears to my eyes that you son "gets" it!! Thanks so much for linking up!!

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  2. Surge says:

    I had the exact same response as Mellisa.. I was like "AWWWWW".
    I don't have a son but I have a cousin and I love him a lot =) I try to teach him that kind of stuff, but I'm not sure which drives or charities are around here

    I wish we had one like yours!

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  3. Patty says:

    I think its fabulous that your group does these projects and that the little ones are involved. FYI – and for any of your other readers who want to check it out – there is an organization called Pajama Program (pajamaprogram.org) with chapters all across the US (including right in Ocean/Monmouth county). They strive to collect new pajamas and books which are distributed to local children in need – many of whom are either foster children or living in shelters. Right now, there is no coordinator in my county and I've been thinking of trying to partner up somehow with our church to get involved. Even if just to run a one-time pajama/book drive. Your story inspired me to do something about it. . . Thank you!!

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  4. Eva Gallant says:

    That is so sweet. Backaroo has a big heart. You're doing a great job, Mom.

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  5. Michelle says:

    great post!

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  6. Stephanie says:

    What a wonderful idea! Now I want to start up a Random Acts of Kindness Club too!

    Kudos to you for modeling compassion and generosity to your kids.

    stephanie@metropolitanmama.net

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